What are you currently working on?

I'm officially ending daily Kidschool today, for the summer. On Monday we start assembling portfolios of our work, so that we will know what we've done this year. I'm reading Kant, _The Science of Right_, for my own edification, as part of an online discussion group (the
Great Conversation at Yahoo Groups). My 16yods will be doing math and his Eagle Scout project, as well as a month of camping. My 15yodd will be doing Economics and a week of camp, as well as playing with her siblings. My 13yods will be pestering others to play with him and will be bored unless he decides to take on projects himself (so far he hasn't decided on any beyond 2 weeks of camp). My 11yodd will be reading daily and begging me to read aloud to her. My 7yodd will be reading to herself and begging me to play with dolls with her. My 3yodd will be getting into the garden, the hose, the wading pool, the dirt, the playground, climbing trees, and watching "moonies" (movies). My 1yods will be getting into everything his parents and siblings do... My dh will be researching for his doctoral dissertation, attending Scout camp with our sons, and doing 3 weeks of annual training for National Guard. I'm also doing the Six Month Purge, anticipating moving in a year, when my dh's dissertation is complete.

How are you furthering your family's goals?

What am I working On?

being a wife, mother, grandmother, and writing my thesis:)

thesis

I want to progress to the point of writing a thesis, also, and going on to become a much more educated and useful person. You are an inspiration to me, Donna. I'm in the thick of raising small children; you give me perspective that this will not last forever.

I'm working on things

I'm working on things related to the six month purge/no/inventory. I'm also trying to do the discipline yes.

May is my month to really work on getting my ducks in a row. I'm working on scheduling my time and sticking with the schedule as much as is reasonable. I'm reading "Leadership Education" and before that, I read the TJEdRefers generally to the concepts presented in the book A Thomas Jefferson Education, written by Dr. Oliver DeMille. We also have an Introduction to Thomas Jefferson Education available elsewhere on this site. Home Companion. Inspiring stuff! Makes me really want to get working on my education.

I'm also trying to focus on how to best support my oldest, who is starting in on LOL. Again, those books have been inspiring. He's in Cubs, and over the summer I want to go through the cub book with him and see what he's interested in doing and help him with that. At some point, I will introduce the Adult Skills class from the Jeppson plan in the Home Companion.

I'm working on our mornings -- we're doing well at having kidschool, but not at starting it early enough or having chores before it. A chore meeting (really a daily planning meeting) during breakfast is working well; the kids enjoy choosing their chores for the day. I have to work at doing their chores with them for a while, though. I tend to want to skip that part. ;)

We're also looking at a move, probably (hopefully) before the end of the summer. Dh wants to find a house by mid-June and move before September. I'm hoping that the six month purge and keeping on top of organizing will help the move go more smoothly.

~Shannon~
Mom to D (8yo boy), S (6yo boy), and M (3yo girl) & R (6month boy) http://analyticreverter.blogspot.com

Six Month Purge

I went to LDSEHE TJEDRefers generally to the concepts presented in the book A Thomas Jefferson Education, written by Dr. Oliver DeMille. We also have an Introduction to Thomas Jefferson Education available elsewhere on this site. Conference last week. A friend there said, "You're supposed to do the six month purge once every six months. It's not supposed to last six months!" I laughed and laughed, because in my mind I had planned it to last six months, from April to the beginning of October. Truthfully, I have so much stuff to decide on, and so many other things going on with seven children at home, three of them teens, that I count myself blessed just to have most of the accumulated clutter off the floor before I left for the conference. While I was gone, my dh and children deep-cleaned the floors in three rooms. I'm thankful for that.

It will take me quite some time to get through this purge. The last time I did a really thorough purge was five years ago!

I bought a whole stack of class CDs at the conference, so I'm listening to them one at a time and discussing them with my children. I had the opportunity to spend some time with three people who have degrees from George Wythe College. I'm more certain now than ever before, that I want that breadth and depth of learning, plus I want to do the hard work of discovering who I really am and what my mission in life is, beyond feeding, clothing, and reading to little ones. I'm very glad to get to feed and clothe and read, but they need strong underlying principles and they need to know how to form their own clear visions of their futures, which means I get to learn how to form my own clear vision.

What CD's did you buy?

Just curious- I wanted to go to the conference, but didn't make it (I am in Raliegh).

I am considering purchasing speeches from ALYI conferences, particularly ones addressing mothers and scholar phase! What CD's did you buy? Anything you have found particularly profound so far?

As for what we are working on- we started a new chore system akin to Accountable Kids. Trying to be consistent, pleading for heavenly help to be motivated by love! I am also studying midwifery, parenting skills, biographies.

CDs and classes I attended

I bought several CDs from the Youth TJEDRefers generally to the concepts presented in the book A Thomas Jefferson Education, written by Dr. Oliver DeMille. We also have an Introduction to Thomas Jefferson Education available elsewhere on this site. Conference, but haven't listened to them yet; my youth were not able to go wih me. I bought several CDs of classes I attended, particularly the ones by Andrew Groft and Angela Baker, and I enjoyed classes by Julie Earley and Nicholeen Peck.

All four of these people have degrees from or are associated with George Wythe College, and so I was looking for proof in the pudding, so to speak. My dh refuses to consider GWCAn abbreviation of George Wythe University (formerly George Wythe College), a private liberal arts college headquartered in Cedar City, Utah, which Dr. Oliver DeMille helped found, and where he formerly served as president. There are also plans underway for building a much larger campus in Monticello, Utah, and plans have also been announced for a remote campus in Alberta, Canada. for our children, because it is unaccredited, therefore not accountable to a body whose authority he recognizes, therefore not eligible to grant federal student aid to their students, which means our children would have to be completely self-funding (After 17 years of marriage and unremitting work, we finally have our heads above water consistently; we would buy a house before funding college for our children).

I found that each of these four people has a different focus; each one probably has a degree in a different area of study. Each of them spoke very knowledgeably in his or her field. I spoke a litle with two of them and in some depth with Angela Baker. I was impressed to ask her what her mission in life is, and she told me. I found it related very well to the various mission categories DeMille outlines in some of his talks. It was wonderful to talk to people who are sincerely trying to better themselves and others. They give me a sense that they each have studied and pondered to know what they should focus on, and they are going after those things full-bore, all efforts, with kindness and understanding for those of us who aren't sure what we're doing. They were very encouraging and uplifting.

I went to the conference in large part because I wanted to find people who think deeply and who take life seriously (not somberly, but deliberately), who can have fun but who have a definite purpose to what they're doing. And it helps that I'm LDS and trying to implement TJEDRefers generally to the concepts presented in the book A Thomas Jefferson Education, written by Dr. Oliver DeMille. We also have an Introduction to Thomas Jefferson Education available elsewhere on this site. principles in my home, so a lot of their purpose is my purpose. With these people as examples of GWCAn abbreviation of George Wythe University (formerly George Wythe College), a private liberal arts college headquartered in Cedar City, Utah, which Dr. Oliver DeMille helped found, and where he formerly served as president. There are also plans underway for building a much larger campus in Monticello, Utah, and plans have also been announced for a remote campus in Alberta, Canada.'s work and of the kind of thinkers it attracts, I'm in favor of it. I can see why TJEDRefers generally to the concepts presented in the book A Thomas Jefferson Education, written by Dr. Oliver DeMille. We also have an Introduction to Thomas Jefferson Education available elsewhere on this site. is growing by leaps and bounds, and I can see why it is not without failures. That kind of deep thought and study requires time and energy, patience, and diligence. Only a clear vision or mental picture that the results will be worth the effort can keep you on course long enough to reach the goal.

I got a lot out of: "The Way You See Government is the Way You See Education" by Dr. Groft,
"Raising Children With Character" by Nicholeen Peck,
"A Renaissance of Kings" by Dr. Groft,
"Plato and the Handcart Principle" by Angela Baker,
"Adult Phases of TJEdRefers generally to the concepts presented in the book A Thomas Jefferson Education, written by Dr. Oliver DeMille. We also have an Introduction to Thomas Jefferson Education available elsewhere on this site." by Dr. Earley,
"Intro to TJEdRefers generally to the concepts presented in the book A Thomas Jefferson Education, written by Dr. Oliver DeMille. We also have an Introduction to Thomas Jefferson Education available elsewhere on this site. (part 1): The Four Phases of Education" by Dr. Earley,
"A Joyful Mother" by Angela Baker.

Note: one of the presenters for the homeschooling part of the conference is Alison something. She is not a TJEder and has written some expressing her misgivings about TJEdRefers generally to the concepts presented in the book A Thomas Jefferson Education, written by Dr. Oliver DeMille. We also have an Introduction to Thomas Jefferson Education available elsewhere on this site.. I did not attend her class and so I don't know if it came up in the class.

I bought several other CDs but haven't listened to them all yet. I also bought two GWCAn abbreviation of George Wythe University (formerly George Wythe College), a private liberal arts college headquartered in Cedar City, Utah, which Dr. Oliver DeMille helped found, and where he formerly served as president. There are also plans underway for building a much larger campus in Monticello, Utah, and plans have also been announced for a remote campus in Alberta, Canada. disks: "Cycles in History" and something about Worldviews. Both of these I have listened to and found very enlightening.

I'm coming from a phase in my life when I had a lot of time to sit and read and think (while being pregnant and while nursing) to a phase when I'm constantly moving about. This is an application phase, applying what I've learned before going in depth learning more. So at the moment I'm working on being present in the moment with my children (and witnessing vastly improved relationships with my 11yo and 3yo) and holding mighty prayer, not rote or perfunctory prayer. This is because my core classic study reminded me that I have not been praying much lately (because I've been moving from dawn to midnight every day). So! Next project: remember to stop and pray and converse with the Lord, sort out what's really important to do and do it.

Thank you, I can relate!

I also need to focus on 'mighty prayer' and being present in the moment with my husband and with my children. Thank you for your insights. I know I need more charity to fulfill my missions, and it seems that prayer is the place to go for that!

I am also having trouble with staying focused in my education. It is difficult to keep the vision of what my purpose is before me. I have heard when you are a scholar, you will be so passionate about your studies, you will be very driven and things will not get in your way. I think guilt gets in my way a lot. I have trouble remembering why studying is a blessing to my family, and to God. It is a serious task to balance these roles. I am very interested in the speech, adult phases by Julie Earley. I am also hoping to listen to some other 'mommy scholar' speeches from AYLI.

I listened to the Depth Phase speech by Oliver Demille from '06 I believe? I have listened to that one several times, and come away more focused each time. He talks about allegiances, and who you are committed to serving. Some people chose themselves, some people choose other people. If your goal in life is to please others, or to please yourself, you might meet your goal , but you will wonder why you are not happy. Serving God is tricky also- the commitment is to do, go, be whatever he wants. The result is service and happiness. Wow! That is what I want!

What did you get out of the speeches you have listened to so far?

I am wanting to 'set the example' for how great George Wythe is by getting their distance degree, but I am begining to train as a doula/labor assistant, and do not know if it is right for me to try to do both of those things right now.
I am also trying to get my body ready to have another baby. I would like to be in great shape this time!

What I got out of the speeches

I got so much out of them that I need to study my notes further, along with references in my core classic. I'm getting over a cold, because I crashed and burned this past week--too many late nights and early mornings and not enough naps. So my study, actually, has improved, because I don't have enough energy to get up and do a lot. I went to a church women's meeting (Stake Enrichment Meeting) and have been reviewing my notes from that and looking up scripture references, particularly Doctrine and Covenants section 4: ask and ye shall receive, if you ask in faith, nothing wavering, not doubting that you will receive an answer, and willing to take action on what you learn (sincere seeking).

prayer

My life goes in waves. Sometimes I spend hours daily in my core classics, and other times I scarcely take time for a two-line prayer. But this week I've been reading parts one and two of _The Brothers Karamazov_. It's part of my formal education, part of a Great Conversation discussion online. But this one line stands out to me:

Prayer is an education.

I choose to take more time in future for prayer.

I just returned from a week at Grandma's

I just returned from a week at my mother-in-laws's home. My dh and seven children and I enjoyed being there very much. It was an opportunity to spend time with aunts, uncles, and cousins who will not be around there much longer, as my older children and the older cousins are headed for college and jobs in a couple years. I also had time to ruminate on what extended family relationships should be. It was enlightening, and while I'm glad we were able to spend time there, I'm thankful to live far enough away to form our own family traditions without quite so many relationships to maintain. It has been useful to look at our family members from a distance as well as up close.

There are serious differences in priorities, religion, core classics, and attitudes towards personal missions that we would have to combat constantly if we lived there. There are also differences in definitions of what loyalty to the family means.

Nepotism, for instance, is acceptable to most of them, but not to me. I'm in favor of forming a close, loving, supportive community, but I would base it on rule of law and true principles, not solely on family relationships. Family connections are a necessary and true principle, but they cannot be allowed to get in the way of honesty, hard work, or core classic study. What is best for family members includes holding them responsible for their own decisions and giving them what they need, not necessarily what they want.